You don’t want to attract the wrong kind of attention. Personally, apart from the last one (not only too lazy to think of something, they can’t even be bothered to check their spelling) and the scary one about the ‘furnace of darkness’, I find the others fine, but perhaps a little bland. So when you’re creating your own headline, you need to ask yourself, does this pique interest? They appealed to my taste, but may well not appeal to yours.Thirdly, it’s best to leave work out of things at this point. Basically, I’m not on falling over myself to click the ‘read more’ button. In any case they are slightly more interesting and well thought out than the earlier ones, demonstrating a level of creativity and humour. With a little bit of effort you will probably come up with something that is better than 90% of what is currently out there!It’s a bit negative and has a few red flags but other than that – it’s not bad!
What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It’s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct.
It doesn’t describe you with overused adjectives such as “intelligent, compassionate, educated, and independent” and it is free of boring statements that say nothing such as “I am as comfortable staying in as staying out.” Rather than continue describing what a good profile is, I want to bring to your attention real examples of three actual dating profiles from on popular site that I rated for content.
Let’s have a look below at some actual dating headlines in use now (the good, the bad and the ugly…) I literally cut and paste the first 15 I came across directly from two different dating sites today – so these are real, live headlines uncensored by me.
*life's a journey not a destination *Life is to short to drink cheap ... * Simply complicated * Looking for that missing part (you gotta feel for this guy) * Man Meets Mate, Hell Freezes Over * I'm a Good Kind of Bad Boy * Take the risk.
His name makes me chuckle because it’s a bit silly, but it shows he has some imagination and already I know I have something in common with him.
Frank number two is making his username work hard for him rather than wasting this great opportunity to attract people from the get-go. How much easier would it be to send him an email than the first Frank? But also, crucially, it’s going to be much, much easier to remember the name of the second Frank, so if you want to find him again the next time you’re online, you will. Have a look back at some of the things you came up with about yourself last week.Firstly, the most important thing is to make sure you’re using correct spelling and grammar (apart from the capital letter usage as outlined above).So, avoid names like: I’m sure I don’t need to tell you this, but they are just awful.Are there any words/phrases/hobbies that stand out from the crowd that are representative of you?For example, if you enjoy sewing, baking or painting you could come up with some examples as follows: that includes something you like doing, is unique, clear, positive and appeals to people not robots, you are already storming ahead of your competition.Tired of meeting BOYS who tell me what I want to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious.