So at 2 a.m., I picked up the phone in this girl's bedroom, called my girlfriend, said, 'I'msorrywecan'tseeeachotheranymorebye' and hung up." —Roger, 27, social worker How He Really Feels After Calling It Quits"After I break up with a girl, I feel a tremendous sense of relief.
Before you break up, you're agonizing because you're not sure if it's the right decision.
I usually feel worse then."—Dave, 28, office manager When He's the One Who Got the Ax"After my girlfriend of two years dumped me, my friends flew me to Vegas. It depresses you and makes you miss your sweet girl."—Shane"I usually write my ex a tell-off letter and point out everything I couldn't stand about her, and sometimes I actually mail it."—Geoffrey"I go out and have sex with any decent girl who hits on me. So I told all my friends she had bad skin and was a terrible dancer, which explained her total lack of moves in bed." —Nick, 30, contractor"I'm not afraid to talk trash, but I'm usually more into figuring out what the hell happened. "—Corey"After the breakup, I usually talk about how great she was in bed — in deep detail.
You have to reaffirm that you've still got it." —Corey, 26, musician "I obsess. I broke up with the last girl I lived with because I found a bill for ,000 that she had racked up on her own charge card and was afraid to tell me about. At that point, it's fair game to kiss and tell."—Seth, 32, copywriter The Post-Dump Hump"I often wind up having sex with my exes.
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We also got the straight-up facts on how men react when you do the dumping — and the heinous, pathetic ways they try to move on...
If she's afraid to tell me about that, what other irresponsible things has she done and hidden from me? It's always better than the sex you had when you were together because you don't have the relationship baggage anymore."—Ontario, 26, bartender"Sexual nostalgia can suck you in, especially after a few beers.
So I analyzed it with my friends to make sure I wasn't crazy." —Jason, 31, architect "I dated a girl once who turned out to be a stripper with two kids. I remember an ex coming over because she was upset and had just broken up with some guy.
Following a debilitating relationship, this German chick I went out with was so much more realistic. Then it really feels like a whole new relationship." —Nick"The only girls I want after a breakup are centerfolds in porn magazines.
She didn't expect me to be Ben Affleck and have a constant romance going. Sometimes you fart and that's not romantic." —Dave"I guess my immediate choice is for the opposite kind of girl. I'm usually so fed up with girls at that point that I become pretty antisocial."—Geoffrey"I quickly get involved with a girl who's just broken up with someone too; that way we're both in transition.
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